I told someone I would explain this so here I am. I wish I could explain this in fewer words but I can't. It will be worth your read, I think. I call this 'Time Flow Systems' but you can call it whatever you want.
For most of you, you really do need to get over that pressurized brain of yours. It's the pressure that you are placing on yourself and the pressure others are placing on you. Take a deep breath, calm down, and flow into the 'Time Flow System'. Realize that you are not someone else, you are you. Remember, I said 'most people' so let me explain who most people are.
Most people are going to have some tough emotions going on in this industry. Let's look at some of those emotions:
*Why can't I get referrals?
*This does not work for me?
*This is crazy, to make a partial cent for viewing an ad!
*The survey I spent time on did not credit!
*The tasks flag me all the time!
*I'm being cheated!
*I advertise every where but I have 0 referrals!
*I only make 5 cents a day!
*This is insane!
*This is crazy!
*I'm getting now where!
*Something is not right
*I can't do this
*I have wasted my time
*I'll stop trying to make money online
*I've spent more money than I've made
*I'm so sad
*I can't compete
*I must be dumb at this
*I GIVE UP!
What others are saying to most people:
*Go get referrals
*Sponsor gazillions of people
*Tell your family and friends
*I got a gazillion referrals you go out there and get a gazillion referrals too
*Pay for that!
*Go buy that!
*Do it now!
*Just do it!
I suppose what upsets me the most about some of that is the ignorance involved. Psychology can be very good
in marketing to an extent. But if you don't know what you're doing, ya best better layoff your referrals and instead
focus on understanding them and the issues they are encountering. Someone along the way, got this, at least to
an extent and came out with 'IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT'. Have you ever viewed ads like that or web pages that say
IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT. Well, I have news for that guy or gal that wrote that, it IS YOUR FAULT. The fault makes
a full circle. Kind of like corn on the cob that is half eaten on one side and half eaten on the other side then gets thrown
in the trash.
Let's look also at what some people say:
*SafeLists DON'T work
*TrafficExchanges DON'T work
*Family and Friends DON'T work
*Classified ads DON'T work
*Forums DON'T work
*Advertising DON'T work for me...
Well of course they DON'T WORK. You know why they don't work? They don't work because they are not
work. They are SYSTEMS. It is people that must learn to understand systems and how to
utilize system to get the most advantage from systems. This understanding of systems, and this utilizing of systems,
and this taking advantage of systems, IS WORK BY THE USER of those systems...not the other way around.
When we understand systems, when we utilize systems to our advantage, then we are no longer ignorant of
the systems. We are in the know. We are knowledgable. We make sense of it. We no longer feel pressured.
We no longer feel sad. We save money and we make money and ..... we gain referrals.
Now let me ask you a question. No need to answer here. Just think about this question in your head. Think
about it for at least 5 minutes. I'm not going to give you the answer. Even if the answer appears readily to
you, think about it for at least 5 minutes. Ok, here is the question:
-If there is no food on the table, can you eat the food that is on the table?
Think about that question and I'll be back in a bit to discuss what Time Flow Systems are and how you gain
referrals from them.