First of all, I apologize for opening a new thread using your name again, but I have no other way to reach you.
Yesterday I received two warnings; that happened after I had rated your reputation with a negative vote. The worker who answered me told me that my negative felt like a revenge; I tried to explain that it was not a revenge, but that I had felt attacked by your comments on the first thread I opened to address you, I'll quote it to make this easier:
valerie wrote:Please read the forum rules and if you don't understand them, submit a support ticket through
the HelpDesk.
Excessive emoticons are against the forum rules.
Although your topic and chatting away back and forth about basically nothing with your friend,
was ridiculous in my opinion, that is NOT why I locked the topic.
Moderators make decisions based on administrations rules and what we feel is inappropriate.
By the way, I am not most moderators.
I stress once more, read the forum rules.
Topic Locked.
I think that saying my friend and I were talking "about basically nothing" was not very accurate, since I had even talked about my aunt, who passed away not long ago (yeah, it's a personal issue, but it's not "nothing"); you also stated it was "ridiculous" in your opinion... and I felt somehow attacked and mistreated, as there were other people who seemed very pissed about that thread, as if we didn't have the right to talk about general topics, and as if they were compelled to enter and read it (whenever I find a thread that I'm not interested in, I just skip it and keep browsing, I think that's the logical thing to do); but it was THEM who were questioning it, NOT me, I was not discussing about my thread being interesting/legitimate or not, so when I read your answer I was like "What?" "Why?".
You also said you are not most moderators, and I was aware of that, because I also said that every moderator has his/her own methods. My point was that I never meant to break the rules, I'm familiarized with them because I've read them, but I'm used to see people quoting and using emoticons, and though it's true that I had my doubts in the beginning and thought maybe I shouldn't quote everytime I answered, I just didn't get to think I was surpassing the limits; and as for the emoticons, it never occurred to me that I'd might be using them excessively (in case I haven't done it properly, I apologize now for breaking both rules).
So I also told you that if you had warned me in time, I would have rectified and there wouldn't have been any need to close the thread; that was a suggestion, nothing more. I didn't even ask you to reopen that thread or anything, because I didn't really need it, and I had also started to feel umcorfotable with so many people having access to certain comments about my life; it's just that we didn't have any other way to communicate, so we used this one for a while, thinking there wouldn't be any problems.
I understand we all must abide by the rules, and I've never had any problems with that. The point is, and I've just recently experienced it, that each moderator has their right to understand and apply those rules according to his/her judgment, and if you considered closing the thread the best choice, that is totally fine and I understood it. I just want to make it clear that what I really disliked was your last answer, I didn't expect such an attitude from someone who is much more experienced than me and has more power here; and I thought the only way I could let you know (and everybody, because it's obvious that everyone here can see others' reputation), was giving you a negative. I understand that you could feel it as a revenge, but then maybe all negatives could be considered as a revenge; moreover, I got your negative and both warnings after I had rated you, so that could feel as a revenge too...
Anyway, I don't mean to write the Holy Book here. I had been thinking about all this, yesterday I was very worried that they could ban me from the Forums because of the warnings I got... another moderator helped me and told me I didn't need to worry though, so being afraid of getting banned is not the reason why I'm writing this to you, nor even the fact that I've just found out my negative is gone (though I won't say this one hasn't helped; I don't know if it's been you who has removed it... but thank you); what I would like is a fresh start between you and me. I'm making an effort to understand your reasons, and I want to say I'm very sorry for any inconveniences I might have caused you. I just hope you get to understand me too. I love this site, I'm very grateful to it for many things, and these Forums are one of them; I've met wonderful people here and I like getting along well with everybody. So please, let's forget about all this and start a new period. Of course I'll change my negative right now, though I don't have the power to make it disappear; I'll make it a neutral, wait for your answer and then I'm pretty sure I'll turn it into a positive.
Sorry for the extension, I couldn't manage to keep this shorter.
Best regards.
I know how it feels like... 
friend..
Cheer up.. 
