I'm also having problems with PayPal, though of a different nature. Nobody has charged me anything, but they've decided my bank account is no longer valid. It is, and I've been using it for years, and as far as I'm aware, nothing has changed, but they've decided it's not valid, and since it's a Credit Union account, it's difficult to argue.
The problem is they all handle payments the same way. If you're having problems with PayPal, the chances are, you're going to have problems with everyone else too. You probably want to look at more convoluted ways to get your hands on your cash. As a US member, a cheque will work fine for you.
I'm probably going to have to switch to Tango, and either hope the virtual visa cards can fund neteller, or get the bitcoin card and sell it for moneygram.
But for now, I'm carrying on with PayPal, and using it for online purchases rather than withdrawing for cash. When the summer slump is behind us, I'll take another look.
Edit to add, here is the email they sent - it may or may not be a similar issue to yours:
Quote:
Your bank has let us know that there isn't a valid Direct Debit Instruction set up
between PayPal and your bank account ending in XXXX. This means that you won't be
able to use this bank account to fund any PayPal payments, but you may still withdraw
money to it.
"How to make future payments with PayPal"
To use your bank account ending in XXXX to fund any future payments with PayPal,
you'll need to re-submit the Direct Debit Instruction. To do this, log in to your
PayPal account at<snip>
The credit union assures me there
is a valid direct debit instruction, and I
can't still withdraw.