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pindokhan123 wrote: .....
in today's society where money talks,only 2 things bring people together,that are weddings and funerals,apart from that no one wants to know
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I wrote:When I look at my life, and wonder where I went wrong, it's actually pretty obvious.
Mercy.
Mercy is where it went wrong.
My advice to the younger generation - and I confess this isn't your general feel good advice - is to put mercy aside. It isn't worth it. You must avenge all wrongs before they escalate. You must avenge all blood feuds before they spread. You must keep your friends close, and your axe closer.
If you do not, that's exactly what they will do - spread, escalate, and poison every aspect of your life. Mercy is a weapon of the coward, wound into the social consciousness as a "good thing" to ensure "powerful" men never have to face somebody they wronged in the flesh. Nothing more.
Odin wrote:Let a man never stir on his road a step
without his weapons of war;
for unsure is the knowing when need shall arise
of a spear on the way without.
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zegon wrote: Hope You can forgive me , but i'm not going to answer this question and hope you forget it.
Honestly ;
It depends on what people have done , some things can not be forgiven sometimes , such as infidelity , etc.
But i would like to be forgiven myself if i've done something stupid and then i try to be generous back on that.
But as i said , some things i just can not get over.
Forgive my bad English , i wrote on American , hope you can forget that too.
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seaeagle wrote: I'm a very forgiving person. It means I do not always win, and sometimes I get taken advantage of, but being able to forgive & forget means that I can put things behind me and move on with my life without bitterness eating away my insides.
We cannot change the past, so why continue living in it? Sometimes we need to move on (as hard as it may seem to do).
Forgive & forget does not mean literally wiping what happened from your mind. It is about acknowledging that you can't change what happened, and getting on with life without the memories of what occurred holding you back.
I class being unable to forgive or forget as a form of bitterness, and we all know what they say about bitterness. That it is like taking poison & hoping the other person will die, or that it is a cancer that eats the host from the inside.
If you cannot forgive or forgot, then you are also denying the other person the opportunity to make things right again.
Of course, some people are just bad for you & should be cut out of your life, but I've found that, in the main, most people who do the wrong thing feel embarrassed & ashamed that they have let the other person down & want to right the wrong. That requires forgiveness from the wronged person.
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