tasman you little softy whoosh bag happiness defined is when a person is tension free,is satisfied with her/his other half and their relationship is truly blissful,,,,,,,,,,,,that's when i see a person really happy when there are no problems in their marriage,,i mean major ones,,little ones like,,where's my other sock? or you shut the door i did it last time are irrelevant things,,,,,,,,i'm talking about major man/wife agendas here....do you understand now the word 'happy'?

here it is again from google

'Happiness is a mental or emotional state of well-being which can be defined by, among others, positive or pleasant emotions ranging from contentment to intense joy.

hey my good friends,if you are in a relationship and are happy,,,,,,,,,,,,did you see there how i have separated the two? relationship is one part,being happy is another
getting back to what i was saying......and are happy,what is your secret? what do you sacrifice or do to have the minimum of problems?

personally,i think the most 3 important factors in any relationship are being loyal, understanding each others needs and compromising on everything you disagree on,,,,,the latter i find is the biggest reason why couples breakup or have problems in their relationships.

what works for you?

thats all well n' good niko,what abt me? im getting so many yoursurveys but cant do any of them,either quotas full or im disqualified or they think im still in England and trying to use a proxy or vpn or sumthing,,,,,,,,,,now thats what i call genuinely,utterly,disgustingly disgusting

good one marcel

i just love it when bouldrake suddenly comes barging in out of the blue with a crazy line,,,,,,,,,,just cracks you up!

Happy Birthday! from pindo too

this is the way how members of clixsense should be,friendly and respectful......

you give you gain,you disrespect you get my stick

lol,,i thought i abt injecting a bit of humour in that one,glad you agree mate

i think we all need to take 'da chill pill' n' chillout............by showing a good attitude towards one another this forum will go forward and strive,if people,whether mods or members or jack from Uranus start getting too personal,indirect sarcastic remarks and the rest then unfortunately this forum will lose its integrity....i mean comon guys this is the only place that links us members together and its in our hands to keep it stain free


if everyone shows a good attitude then i guarantee there will be no problems here,its only when certain people try to up their ego which will effect sum1 one way or another then tensions flare up,,sticks come out,axes get sharpened etc.

yep, got 2 ends,ones round and blunt,the others sharp and pointed,which end i use depends on my mood

its ok to have a bit of filth lurking in the corner ,,too squeaky clean and then people tend to worry me

people who tend to agree on many things think alike,those that moan and groan and dont get the hint,well they are in a totally different league,am i right guys n' gals?

Nikorj wrote:

pindokhan123 wrote:

greengarden wrote: At least I can say that I'm lucky with birds! I like bird watching on my spare time in my little geannhomegarden. Now, some hummingbirds have migrated and I was lucky to video clip one of them trying to knock on the window glass panel with her long slender beak. I wish I can show this clip here in Clixsense.

oh for a moment i thought you were talking abt the other birds,,you know the flightless ones,wearing heels and lipstick

oh well....better go and find that bird you are watching then

That's funny Pindo.

Exactly my thoughts, How weird is that

gr8 minds think alike niko,,,or hmmm maybe something else

greengarden wrote: At least I can say that I'm lucky with birds! I like bird watching on my spare time in my little geannhomegarden. Now, some hummingbirds have migrated and I was lucky to video clip one of them trying to knock on the window glass panel with her long slender beak. I wish I can show this clip here in Clixsense.

oh for a moment i thought you were talking abt the other birds,,you know the flightless ones,wearing heels and lipstick

oh well....better go and find that bird you are watching then

larryonly wrote: We, as people need at least a little abnormal, otherwise it becomes too boring .

i agree totally larry,everyone needs a bit of the abnormal in their life,a monotonous life,predictable from one day to the next can really drive you suicidal...so if anyone ever calls you stupid or or silly just smile,its them that are missing out on the good times

Marcel-R6 wrote:

pindokhan123 wrote:
i dry alot of herbs too,,hey marcel,you like dried herbs?

Taking the fifth...everything I say ,can be used against me

oh comon you little whooshy pie,am just kiddin,,,mind you with those 6 packs i am sure you can a handle it

thankyou greengarden,,, charez still thinks im a redneck whose got plantations and plantations of greenery,,,little does he know ,im just a wee little lassie with a wee back garden with a few wee veg

realpizza wrote:

Quote:My wife and I were happy for twenty years. Then we met

lol ,thats a really good one pizza!

zipscorp wrote:

verrrrrrry true indeed,story of my life really,,,just find it so hard to let go sometimes,maybe i am weak or too resentful

'Happy Birthday' and many returns of the day!